Are you worried or having some frequent bad feelings that your long-distance partner, might be cheating on you?
Are you looking for means to confirm if your partner is still faithful in the relationship? Then check out the below listed major signs of a cheating partner, and if your partner is 80% guilty of those listed signs below, then you have gotten your answer. I will personally advise you, to walk away or find a better person for yourself.
1. He or She Takes Longer Time To Reply Your Text:
A lover or person in love, will never waste time to reply your text messages, unless he is very busy at that moment or didn’t notice the message on time.
But if such frequently happens, then you should know you are no more in his or her heart, someone has occupied that space, and you better not waste your time, and move on to better people who will value your love and attention.
What sustains every long distant relationship is the steady communication, like phone calls, text, and even the video calls. But when those communications start dying off gradually, it’s a pure sign that your distant partner is either seeing someone else, or no more interested in you, and I will sincerely advise you to move on and never bother your heart, also get your heart well-prepared for breakup.
2. He or She Frequently Avoids Video Calls / Calls From You:
Like I earlier said above, a regular phone call communication, sustains a distant relationship. But if there is no more regular connection via calls or video connections, then there is a hindrance which can be either that he or she sees another person or no longer interested in you.
Someone in love will never, and can never stay a whole hour/day, without hearing your voice nor speaking to you. So, when he or she doesn’t call, it’s an error/a perfect sign that he or she is no longer interested. Then, when you call and he or she avoids your calls, it needs a question.
Whenever your partner starts avoiding your calls frequently, and gives you unnecessary excuses of either busy or tired, then there is something wrong.
Your partner shouldn’t be tired of wanting to hear from you because your voice should be a strength to him or her, so don’t let the frequent excuses of avoiding your calls deceive you.
3. The Word “I Love You” is no more frequent:
When you notice your partner don’t tell you “I Love You” daily as usual, then there is something wrong. Your partner should be 100% eager to express feelings, by making you know how much he/she values you, and steady reminding you of the Love, (saying I Love You).
You both should never end your calls without the word “I Love You” and the reply “I Love You Too”. So please take note of this, and never be blinded when your partner frequently forgets to tell you “I Love You”.
4. Getting Angry Easily:
Whenever you notice that your partner gets angry easily on you and maybe hangs up the call, and can even stay without calling you back for hours or the whole day, all for being upset, then your value to him/her has reduced, and I will strongly advise you to take off the relationship, and more on with the serious people that needs you.
Love conquers every form of anger, but when the so-called love from your partner is not strong enough to conquer his or her anger because of some misunderstandings, then that’s no more real love.
When everything about you, displeases your partner and he or she always finds fault in you to get upset for, wake off the relationship because that person is no more interested in you.
5. Don’t Want You Visiting:
This is a pure sign of your partner not valuing you because when he or she does, will always want you visiting. So, whenever you notice your partner is avoiding you from visiting, then there is something fishy going on or he/she is seeing someone else.
6. No More Showing Care To You:
A lover should always show care and love to his or her partner. A person in love cannot stay hours nor days without hearing from you (the lover) or showing cares and love to you always.
That’s very moment when he or she shows less care, believe me there is someone else who has taken that spot in the heart.
The easiest way to know if your long distant partner is no more interested or cheating on you, is when he or she shows less care/attention. Care is a perfect sign of love, but when it’s not there again, then the love is also not present.
7. No More Sweet Talk as Usual:
Your partner should be lovable and talk sweet all the time. But when he or she no longer engages you in some moments of sweet/romantic talks, then know that your distant partner has someone else.
You should feel the love and care, and he or she should always put you in some romantic mood, by engaging you in some sweet and lovable chat/talk. He or she should be able to always talk to you about love, and make you feel loved.
But when you notice the moment’s of sweet talks are lacking in your relationship, it’s a clear sign that your partner is not interested in you again.
8. He or She wants to avoid coming back:
Finally, when that your distant partner no more find coming back interesting, when he or she wants to avoid running back to you, dear becomes a perfect judge and conclusion for you to know your partner is happy over there with another.
No genuine lover who won’t want to run back to his/her lover at any given period of time. So, when your partner avoids running back to you, I will boldly tell you that he or she has found someone else. You have to move on and make yourself happy.
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